Today I had a very powerful experience. One that wasn’t controlled by brands, or a company. In fact, this particular lesson came from a homeless meth addict (this is an assumption - it could be crack) in Vancouver’s Downtown East Side, Canada’s poorest community.
I was walking Julius home from my morning excursion for coffee at The Smart Mouth Cafe, when we came across a young guy, no more than 19 or 20, sitting at the corner writing a sign with his breakfast sandwich sitting on the ground next to him. Julius, being the scavenging little road-food vacuum that he is, decided this gentleman’s breakfast would compliment the pizza and chicken bones he had earlier quite nicely. Without my notice Julius snapped up that sandwich and had it halfway down (wrapper and all), before either of us noticed.
I apologized profusely to Matt (I learned his name later), but there was a look of utter disappointment that washed over his face. Why wouldn’t their be? He just lost his breakfast to a spoiled dog who doesn’t listen as well as he should. I offered him the measly $0.50 I had in my pocket, and the only response he could muster was “Thanks... I’ll try and find something to eat later. Don’t worry about it.” I apologized again and turned home.
The look on Matt’s face, one of being beaten by the world, constantly being let down and complacency with taking what life’s fed him, kept running through my mind. Upon returning home, I filled a bag of food. A box of protein cereal, a half dozen or so granola bars, a carton of soup and an apple. Not terribly much in my mind, but something I hoped would at least give him sustenance for the day.
When I found Matt again, he barely remembered who I was - I’m sure at the time it happened, I was just another yuppie f*ck walking his dog in Gastown. I introduced myself and told him again how sorry I was for my dog’s actions (he told me not to worry - happens all the time). I handed him the small bag of groceries and simply told him - if he wants them, their his.
Ladies and gentlemen, never have I seen gratitude like this. He thanked me up, down, left, right and centre. When I first saw Matt, all I noticed were the scars and burns on his face from abusing a poison, but now, a smile illuminated his face! He was beaming! But, the one thing that will stay with me forever was what he asked me after I gave it to him...
“Can I share it?”
WOW! I was awestruck. How, in a day and age where it’s difficult to borrow $5 from your mom, does a man with nothing have the strength of character to share what little he has? Man - this blew my mind!
I’m telling this story for a few reasons, and yes they deal with managing and exceeding expectations.
- When I first met Matt, Julius ate his sandwich, I gave him $0.50 and went home - expectation met. Why would a random guy care about a street kid? His expectation was I had simply moved on.
- I came back with more food for Matt - expectation exceeded!!! The expression that came across his face as he searched through the grocery bag was amazing. For a brief moment, it looked as though he had left his situation and circumstances behind.
- Matt asked me if he could share the food I brought him. Such a simple question. Such a simple answer, but the sentiment that was loaded in this question was beyond measure. EXPECTATION EXCEEDED!
The same story happens daily in business transactions. Perhaps not to the same extent, but it happens. People buy a product or service, they deal with associates & CSR reps, they call a customer support line and their expectations are being “met”.
Well Bravo! Business as usual! Way to reach that low benchmark of getting that consumers have come to expect and loathe from corporate America.
The lesson to be learned here is that when a business or brand starts to exceed expectations - unusual things can happen.
When I buy your product - make sure it works the way you promised and back it up! Years ago I bought a pair of sunglasses from a snowboarding eyewear manufacturer - after the arm fell off (about 2 years after purchase) the company replaced them. No receipt, no hassles - no reason for me to look for another brand of sunglasses. Thank you Smith. Unexpected payoff - at least 2 family members, 4 friends and 2 colleagues have purchased Smith Sunglasses at my recommendation.
When I need help with your product - HELP ME!!! All too often a person will call a customer support line and be bounced around from menu to automated menu often for tens of minutes before finally being able to speak to a live human being. This is what we have all come to expect when calling a business or government agency. Imagine my surprise when I called my cell provider and talked to a live person almost immediately! My issue was resolved within 5 minutes. Still don’t like the telecommunications industry, but they made me feel a little better about the monthly beating they give my wallet.
Every once in a while, like people, a business or brand can exceed expectations. These are the great ones! The businesses people write and talk about with their friends. I recommend that everyone learns what's expected from them. Whether it's your spouse, boss or customer - learning their expectations and going beyond is one of the better ways to ensure love and loyalty.